In Memory of

Gerard

T.

"Scotty"

Mc

Garry

Condolences

Condolence From: monica
Condolence: Almost 7 o'clock Dad. This will be my last post on here forever. I know and Jesus knows how I feel. I miss you everyday. God bless Mom..Jack..Barbara and our whole family. I love you...xoxoxo
Thursday December 31, 2015
Condolence From: monica and jean
Condolence: Missing you on the Saviour's Day. We love you.
Friday December 25, 2015
Condolence From: monica
Condolence: Happy Birthday Dad. I miss you.
Wednesday December 16, 2015
Condolence From: monica and jean
Condolence: Spent the day listening to Cliff Richard and watching Aunt Heather's birthday video taken a month before you passed. You were dancing with mom and were so happy. It seems like you were finally in a good place. Your vices became your life's work...you retired...you and I got close..you saw and loved our wedding...and you just looked relaxed. I later found a journal entry that stated you knew we would finally be close. Just stings because I wish it could have lasted longer...but I will see you again. Mom listened to "Miss You Nights" and said that is her song for you. We miss you every night. We love you. Please bless us Jesus. R.I.P
Monday December 07, 2015
Condolence From: monica
Condolence: It is days and moments like now that I need you. I often wonder how my life would be if you were here. I worry about mom a lot...she is lonely and misses you. I miss you too. Two year anniversary of that horrible day is approaching and it makes me anxious. You were so alive, I got over the shock part..now I am truly grieving...I cry at the mere thought of you...now I have to come to terms that you are just a memory forever. December is terrible...this..your birthday...and your favorite, Christmas....I never really knew how much I loved you until it was too late..and I am sorry for that. I am going to rely on 1 Peter 5-7 for the next few weeks. xoxoxox
Thursday December 03, 2015
Condolence From: monica
Condolence: I hope you and Frankie are happy like kids again in God's gorgeous palace. I imagine the two of you playing soccer like you did in Blantyre. Mostly I hope you feel like a carefree child up there. Life for you wasn't that easy here on earth. I am feeling more lonely as your two year anniversary approaches. I often think about your own fathers absence, and suddenly now, I can empathise with you. Daddyless. We both weren't perfect, but as time moves on I miss you more. I miss what could have become of our blossoming relationship. Glad we had one in the end. I understand that you are part of me. Good, bad or indifferent ....you were my dad. And I can never have you back. And that is heartbreaking. Rest in peace Frankie.
Wednesday October 21, 2015
Condolence From: monica
Condolence: Happy Father's Day. I hope you were smiling when I was with the Mc Garry clan yesterday. Life isn't as fun without you. There will always be a sadness there....until we meet again on a downtown train. Watch over mom. xoxoxox
Sunday June 21, 2015
Condolence From: monica
Condolence: You are in my thoughts everyday...say hello to others I am also missing these days. And give Doreen a hug for me.....Happy Easter Dad.
Sunday April 05, 2015
Condolence From: monica
Condolence: Listening to "Danny Boy" .....the bagpipes are going to kill me this year. Wish you were here. Until we meet again. .......
Tuesday March 17, 2015
Condolence From: Monica
Condolence: Merry Christmas Dad. It has been a very emotional month. You are missed more than you would ever know. I am going to make you proud Dad. Thank you for the beautiful dream..I wrote down every word you said. I truly love you...it is your blood that runs through my veins...and your spirit is in my heart. I am going to seize the day all the of my life now and dance like no one is watching. I am forever changed..and I am going to take the high road...Happy Birthday Jesus!
Thursday December 25, 2014
Condolence From: Monica and Jean
Condolence: Happy Birthday. We miss you. Here holding on. Try and make things better. ......xoxoxoxoxo
Tuesday December 16, 2014
Condolence From: monica
Condolence: Well here it is. One year today, I lost you. The events that took place that day are burned in my memory. Just can't stop seeing myself rocking you back and forth.....praying you would pull through, but here I am....on your memorial page. I also take with me the hard days of the year that has slowly gone by....and who was really there for us, and who made this difficult time much harder. I love you Dad. A part of me died when you passed. Jesus watch over Mom and I...we need it. Until we meet again.....
Sunday December 07, 2014
Condolence From: monica
Condolence: Really..Really.. Really tough day. Learning a lot about heaven. It is making me sad. I never knew all of this. I want you happy...I am just selfish. You are resting in peace.....go rest Dad. I will become closer to God because of it. Loved that we were buddies in the end. Miss our Tuesday's. Rejoyce Dad.
Monday October 27, 2014
Condolence From: Monica and Jean
Condolence: Scotland is still a part of the UK :( oh well at least half of the country agreed with you. One of the last things you wore was your Scottish not British shirts. The world is a crazy place these days anyway, we are glad you are safe. We miss you more and more everyday. Things are not the same without you. Watch over our entire family , things have been rough. We love you.......
Saturday September 20, 2014
Condolence From: me
Condolence: Thinking of you. Miss you today.
Wednesday August 06, 2014
Condolence From: Jean
Condolence: Happy Anniversary Ger. Love, Jean
Wednesday July 09, 2014
Condolence From: Monica
Condolence: I got married in the Catholic church today. I wore the dress you got for me and the necklace too. I know how bad you wanted to go, but I know you were there. Thank you for everything.
Saturday June 28, 2014
Condolence From: Monica
Condolence: Happy Father's Day. Surreal how I gave you flowers and a balloon today at your grave...last year I got you a cell phone so we could be in touch more. Miss you all the days of my life. Monica
Sunday June 15, 2014
Condolence From: Dave Jacuk Jr.
Condolence: I was thinking today that you won't be there to yell from the bleachers at Victoria's graduation or here to be the life of the party at her open house. I know you'll be screaming from above. I got into law school. I know you'd have a bunch of "is that legal?" questions for me ha We miss you.
Tuesday May 27, 2014
Condolence From: Monica
Condolence: I am at church with Mom. It is Easter Sunday and we are missing you. Last year we were all here together. In a blink of an eye my life changed forever. Wish you could be a Grandpa to my future children like you were to David and the kids. Happy Easter Dad. Heaven must be beautiful. Love Me and Mom
Sunday April 20, 2014
Condolence From: Dave Jacuk Jr.
Condolence: Hi Grandpa, it's me again. I was just thinking about how you and Grandma used to surprise us on Christmas. I miss you a lot. I wish you were still here. I love and miss you.
Thursday April 17, 2014
Condolence From: Dave Jacuk Jr.
Condolence: So today is St. Patrick's Day, I know you're probably going crazy right now with all the Irish people out there haha Till we meet again
Monday March 17, 2014
Condolence From: Monica
Condolence: It is our one year wedding anniversary. Matt and I went to the grave to let you know that we are thinking of you. You were so happy that day. Words can't express how sad I am these days. Rest in Peace.
Sunday February 23, 2014
Condolence From: Monica
Condolence: Barbara misses you too.
Saturday February 22, 2014
Condolence From: me again
Condolence: This is not getting any easier Dad. I know you are looking down and shaking your head. Protect me from all of this...in Jesus name, Amen.
Wednesday February 05, 2014
Condolence From: Monica
Condolence: I miss you today.
Thursday January 23, 2014
Condolence From: Jean
Condolence: Happy New Years in Scotland Ger. Love, Jean
Wednesday January 01, 2014
Condolence From: Jean
Condolence: Happy New Years in Scotland Ger. Love, Jean
Tuesday December 31, 2013
Condolence From: Monica
Condolence: I wrote you a whole message on Christmas night. It somehow got deleted. That is why I like pen to paper, not tiny keys that type and disappear into digital air. I had a heavier heart this year because you were going to come by my house for the holiday. I went and got you two Celtic United official jerseys, straight from the homeland, a long boring book about Churchill , and another one on WWII. I also purchased a crockpot for you so you could warm your soup on those chilly winter nights. I was so excited for you to open them. Instead, we went to the Chizzy's. I know you were there with is in spirit. Claire read your letter to her, and was proud of the fact that you adored Matt so much. You always bugged me about when we were going to go there. How I wish you were nagging me now. I feel like a part of me left when you passed away, but I am going to try and fill in with all the wonderful qualities you instilled in me. You always loved Christmas. Last time I saw you, you were sitting in the couch listening to Christmas music. There was even snow on the ground the day of your funeral. It is funny because that night Garfield had it's annual Christmas tree lighting. A parade (with full marching band), made it's way down Out water Lane I swear I felt like I was in the movie Big Fish. I read a journal entry you wrote about bagpipes at a funeral. You said it brought a sense of spirituality. I know it made you proud. You went out with dignity and class Dad and I was honored to give you one of your last wishes. Tomorrow is going to be really hard on Mom. She is going to miss you more New Years than Christmas. It was always something you two shared. So at seven o'clock we are going to say a prayer for you. That is when you always called me and the entire universe to let us all know it was New Years "back home." I will write to you more about how it all went. For now, rest easy Dad. I know.you are.in a beautiful place. I know for a fact that you ate in heaven. You loved God, and made right by him in the end. Your four bibles are full cover to cover with all your writings and hopes for family and the future. You are my special angel now, go be with your own father now. You waited a lifetime for him. Thank him for giving me you. We love you Dad. Always, Monica and Jean
Monday December 30, 2013
Condolence From: Dave Jacuk Jr
Condolence: Hey Grandpa! I still have the letters you've sent me throughout the years. I have one in particular that you sent not too long ago. It says that you're here for many years to come! I know that you're still here in a way. Every time I hear Rod Stewart or any British singer for that matter on the radio, it reminds me of you. I miss you.
Saturday December 28, 2013
Condolence From: Monica
Condolence: Merry Christmas Dad. I wrote you a whole passage about Christmas without you. But somehow deleted. I will repost it when I am not so tired. That is frustrating.
Thursday December 26, 2013
Condolence From: Monica
Condolence: Happy Birthday in heaven Dad. Watch over us. Mom said she wants you to know that you are still talking to her through your journals. What a big job! You saved every piece of paper you ever touched. I also read your letter to me, and the other one to Matt's family. We are going to bring it to Christmas and read it to the Chizzy's. We are so proud of you. See you in our dreams. xoxoxoxo
Monday December 16, 2013
Condolence From: Larry Tagliareni
Condolence: Scotty was a great guy. He always put a smile on my face. He helped others just by being around. I will miss hearing his voice.
Tuesday December 10, 2013
Condolence From: Sam Jacobs
Condolence: Jerry you will be missed!!!!! your Spirit, your Smile & your awesome Caring for all! Love You Sami <3
Tuesday December 10, 2013
Condolence From: Pat B
Condolence: Scotty loved telling stories about family weddings and activities. He had bounds of energy to share with all.
Tuesday December 10, 2013
Condolence From: Deb Giddings
Condolence: It was a privilege and honor to meet Scotty and have him as part of "our" family. The Petrus family. He was a good and caring man who made the passing of Cousin Charlie (Butch) a little easier and filled with love. God bless his newest angel.
Tuesday December 10, 2013
Condolence From: Melanie Curry
Condolence: Hello, family my name is Melanie and i am a friend of this great Man Scotty. I send my love and empathy to the family and friends. I also would like you to know, which you know already, that scotty changed my life and he is such an inspirational guy. He touched my heart every Thursday and Saturday that i saw him. He will forever be in my heart and may he rest in peace and continue to watch over us. Scotty thanks so much and i will make you proud.....one day at a time..god bless...
Monday December 09, 2013
Condolence From: Michele Chizmadia Kenyon
Condolence: I was so sad to hear about the Gerry's passing. He had such a great spirit and he welcomed us into his family with open arms and heart. He will be missed by many, but I know a certain little girl who will be missing her dance partner at the next Mc Garry/ Chizmadia get together. Rest in Peace Gerry and say hi to my dad.
Monday December 09, 2013